Make no mistake, you’re here because a part of you knows how important your deepest needs are.
>> You crave the permission to receive and accept yourself as the woman you’ve long dreamt about.
>> You want to inhabit your body to it’s edges.
>> And you want to take back your experience as a woman and a mother in a way you’ll look back on and forever feel proud of.
But the pressure, the complexity, the inner battle to get it right and break all of the patterns, all weighs so heavily.
>> It feels like you’ve lived a lifetime of being misunderstood.
>> Your own rhythm, your own desires, your own impulses, the way YOU do things - have never truly felt like they mattered.
But they do.
They always have.
In fact, they are the very blueprint that your strong, self healing and independent heart demands, to align with the deeply seeded and soaring power that’s alive within you.
All you’ve ever needed was for someone to truly SEE you, hold you and believe in you, when you couldn’t.
And this is the part where I come in.
The one and only advocate for your deepest truth, the protector of YOUR story, and the curator of the most delicious rite of passage you’ve ever dreamt of.
As a dynamo doula, I take the role of birth worker and postpartum pamper queen beyond the traditional job description.
Alongside educating you, advocating for you, holding you and hearing you,
I’m also facilitating one of the most significant coming home ceremonies of your life.
Having an empowered birth and postpartum experience doesn’t just happen by chance, and believe me when I say that positive vibes and simply choosing a good care provider won’t get you there either.
Just as your ability to breathe doesn’t guarantee you an extraordinary life, your body’s innate power to birth doesn’t necessarily guarantee how it will birth.
And by how, I’m not talking about physiological or cesarean, or even whether or not you choose pain relief.
I’m talking about all the ways you will and won’t get to choose how you let go, how your humanity is respected, how your dignity is protected, how your energy is prioritised, how your heart is held.
As a doula, I curate the energy of your most embodied emergence.
I help you tap into the animal within, that howls her baby into being.
I curate the ideal environment for intimacy to wrap it’s arms around you and your family at a time you need it most.
I help you avoid the landmines of both the maternal healthcare system and the one deep in your epigenetics that spits out shame at your own human terrain.
I become that one person in the room, on the phone, across the table, and at your bedside - that has been there all along; the one constant support person through it all that is looking out for your whole family, that is both close enough to be invested in your story, and professional enough to see what’s coming around the corner.
In our current birth climate, you have more working against you than you realise.
1 out of 3 women experience some level of birth trauma, and regardless of how much planning and research you do to curate your experience, no one is immune to the toxic birth roulette that everyday leaves women open to their rights being violated, choices being dismissed and power feeling diminished.
As your doula, I teach you how to play the game, as well as help curate an environment that keeps you and your partner focused on what really matters to you.
Whilst you tend to the inner labour of your baby and body, let me tend to who you are as a woman and everything that influences it.
The woman that will leave that birth with a maternal imprint that will last forever. The imprint that sets the stage for everything that comes next for you and your family.
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Breaking up with the woman you planned to be + choosing to feel safe.
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Our generation was taught to find safety and security in all the things we were taught to own, instead of how to choose, romance and expand our own embodiment of safety within the only thing we can ever own - our bodies, our lives. It’s time to break up with the woman, the mother, the adult version of yourself that you once mapped out for yourself based on a knee jerk reaction. Everything can be a million times more delicious when you let go of everything you desire “in order to feel safe”, and start letting your own version of “safety” inform your really juicy desires and let them lead you. ✨✨
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Questions for independent couples to answer to strengthen how they lead as a family
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Nurturing your own desires and dreams alongside consciously nurturing a relationship, self-parenting, raising whole and healthy kids, and intentionally creating a lifestyle is fucking draining when compartmentalised. Here are some of the questions I’m asking in my own relationship to support us in prioritising the family vision we intended on before parenthood became a reality, whilst helping us to avoid landing in default mode when life gets busy and chaotic. Super important questions for all parents and lovers who value being their own person too. Tell me - have you had similar conversations in your own partnership? What are your biggest challenges? What’s worked for you? Xx